Nothing Is What It Seems: So It's Been 3 Years

Friday, July 27, 2007

So It's Been 3 Years

yup thats right. last tuesday marked 3 years that i've been blogging. i wonder if i shud celebrate or smth like that. haha. i nvr imagined myself blogging. but as time went by i realised that its a good place to share/boast ur life experiences. n sometimes also let out anger n frustration and happiness when no one else wud listen to u. n i remember y i started blogging to. it was because of you.

here's smth i got from Blog hopping and found on Suneel's blog. found it quite interesting.

You might agree with
it, but when it actually happens 96%
of girls don't realize it 'till it is
too late and that guy who did it is so
frustrated that he has moved on to
someone who will take notice.

From a guys point of view:

We don't care if you talk to other
guys.

We don't care if you're friends with
other guys.

But when you're sitting next to us, and
some random guy walks into the room and
you jump up and tackle him, without
even introducing us, yeah, it pisses
us off.

It doesn't help if you sit there and
talk to him for ten minutes without
even acknowledging the fact that we're
still there.

We don't care if a guy calls you, but
at 2 in the morning we do get a little
concerned.

Nothing is that important at 2 a.m.
that it can't wait till the morning.

Also, when we tell you you're pretty/
beautiful/ gorgeous/cute/stunning, we
freaking mean it.

Don't tell us we're wrong.

We'll stop trying to convince you.

One of the sexiest thing about a girl
is her confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.

Don't be mad when we hold the door
open.
Take Advantage of the mood I'm in.

let us pay for you! don't "feel bad"
about it

We enjoy doing it. It's expected.

Smile and say "thank you."

But sometimes we like it the Dutch way.

Kiss us when no one's watching.

If you kiss us when you know somebody's
looking, we'll be more impressed.

You don't have to get dressed up for
us.

If we're going out with you in the
first place, you don't have to feel
the need to wear the shortest skirt
you have or put on every kind of
makeup you own.

We like you for who you are and not
what you are.

honestly, i think a girl looks more
beautiful when she's just in her pj's.
or my t shirt and boxers, not all
dolled up

Don't take everything we say seriously.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the
beauty in it.

Don't get angry easily.

Stop using magazines/media as your
bible.

Don't talk about how hott Morris
Chesnutt, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney
is in front of us.

It's boring, and we don't care. You
have girlfriends for that.

Whatever happened to the word
"handsome"/"beautiful"

Girls, I cannot stress this enough:if
you aren't being treated right by a
guy, don't wait for him to
change.ditch him.
sorry,,disgrace to the male population
ass and find someone who will treat you
with utter respect.

Someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when
you're at your lowest.

Someone who will care for you even when
you make mistakes.

Someone who will love you, no matter
how bad you make them feel, or what
you do.

Someone who will stop what theyre doing
just to look you in the eyes....and say
"i love you" ..and actually mean it.

Give the nice guys a chance

not saying everything is true. jus saying that its interesting.

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so now it feels like the sand dune i was standing on in the middle of the river has been washed away. the current seems to be dragging me along. i'm not sure if i want to follow the current. but the more i try to reach for the river bank the more energy i lose. i'm hoping for help to appear from the bank. i see none. i know that its futile to try for the bank as the current is overwhelming. all i'd do is waste my effort. n i dun even know whether the place where the current takes me to is a bad one. yet for some reason i'm still unsure whether i want to be brought away by it. guess i'm still storing some hope for help from the river bank. so shud i follow the flow of the river?